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Do I jealously wish I
had relationships as good as someone else’s?
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Have I had sexual
thoughts about someone other than my spouse, without immediately
dismissing them or praying to banish them?
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Did I ever become
obsessed with someone’s physical shape, dwelling on it in my thoughts or
pointing it out to others?
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Do I let my imagination
go uncontrolled? Do I fantasize impurely?
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Have I treated someone
as an object, rather than with dignity and respect?
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Have I enjoyed
pornography or "cheesecake" pictures for the sake of lustful pleasure?
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Have I been lax about
purifying my heart? Has attuning my intellect and will to God’s holiness
and way of loving been unimportant to me?
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Has modesty been
unimportant to me? Modesty means refusing to unveil whatever should remain
hidden, out of respect for yourself and others.
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Have I been attracted to
voyeuristic peeking at people in their homes, bedrooms or bathrooms?
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When someone I know has
violated the privacy or sexuality of others, have I ignored it as if it
didn't really matter?
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Have I encouraged or
condoned sexual permissiveness by promoting "safe sex" instead of
abstinence?
