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Have I had an abortion
or helped someone else get one? When I knew someone was planning to get an
abortion, was I too afraid or too unconcerned to do everything possible to
protect the unborn child?
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Have I used artificial
birth control? Have I been sterilized (or approved of my spouse’s
sterilization) to avoid having children? These may have killed God’s plan
for me to have certain children. It also killed some of the intimacy
between me and my spouse, because it means I was unwilling to give my
spouse all of me, which includes my fertility. Perhaps it has even caused
spontaneous abortions of children who had already begun to live.
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By God’s design,
children are an expression of His love, created through our unitive act of
loving sexual relations. If procreation is separated from the conjugal
act, such as through in vitro fertilization and artificial insemination,
we are going beyond the legitimate scope of medicine in assisting the
process. Have I done this or encouraged someone else to do it?
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Have I been involved in
the termination of a sick person’s life, such as by agreeing to stop food
and water? The Church teaches that the only time it is not sinful to help
end a life is when the medical procedures for keeping someone alive would
be extraordinary and there is no hope for recovery.
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When someone indicated
that he or she approves of abortion or euthanasia, have I said nothing
(which implies I agree) instead of speaking up for God’s view?
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1 John 3:15 says,
"Everyone who hates his brother is a murderer." Whom have I hated by being
unloving toward them?
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Have I killed my own
spirit with self-loathing?
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When have I killed
someone’s self-esteem or dreams or spirit through hurting him or her?
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When have I killed
someone in my heart because he/she wouldn’t do something my way?
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When have I tried to
correct someone without showing compassion?
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When have I fought with
someone? When I insist on winning an argument, it means I want the other
person to lose.
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When have I killed a
child’s spirit or ability to trust me by punishing him or her too severely
or by not showing forgiveness?
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When have I killed my
friends by giving them less than what they needed from me that I could
share?
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When have I killed
people by speaking unkindly about them or by gossiping or slandering?
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Scandal is an attitude
or behavior which leads another to do evil. When have I directly or
indirectly tempted someone to sin, thereby killing them spiritually?
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Physical health is a
gift entrusted to us by God. Do I smoke, take harmful drugs, drink too
much alcohol, eat too much of the wrong foods, drive recklessly, or do
anything that unnecessarily risks my life or shortens it?
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Have I ever encouraged
someone else to do these things?
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Do I carry in me envy,
rage, jealousy, or any other feeling that is unpeaceful? In other words,
am I waging war within myself?
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Have I allowed the death
of people by not getting involved when I could have provided financial or
other help during times of murderous famines or war?
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What have I done that
has contributed to the killing of this planet’s environment, when I could
have avoided it? What resources and skills have I neglected to use to
protect the environment?
