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First Preference:
Funeral rites with the Body present
The Church holds up as
normative the rites contained in its ritual book The Order of Christian
Funerals. Normally these rites include: a Vigil Service celebrated in the
funeral home or the church, the Funeral Liturgy itself, and the Rite of
Committal of the body at the cemetery. Despite being valuable expressions of
faith, the rosary and other traditions are not to replace the Vigil for the
Deceased. However, it would be acceptable that these devotions are
celebrated in addition to the Vigil Service.
It is the Church's preference that the body of the deceased be present for
the Vigil Service. In addition, the body of the deceased should be brought
to the local parish church for the Funeral mass. Funeral Masses are not
permitted in funeral homes or cemetery chapels.
The Rite of Committal of the body normally takes place at the cemetery
although the committal can be done at the end of the Funeral Mass. The body
of the deceased is to be interred, either in the ground or in a crypt
following the Funeral Mass.
Second Preference:
Funeral rites with the body present and
cremation afterwards
When the choice has been
made to cremate a body, it is recommended that the cremation take place
after the Funeral Liturgy. In this case, the Vigil for the Deceased and
related rites and prayers should be celebrated in the presence of the body.
Then, the body should be brought to the parish church for the Funeral
Liturgy with cremation taking place afterwards.
After cremation of the body, the cremated remains should be committed for
burial according to the Order of Christian Funerals. The cremated remains
should be treated with the same respect given to the human body. Therefore,
they should be buried in a grave or entombed in a mausoleum or columbarium
(but not a common/communal columbarium). This is the reverent disposition of
the cremated remains that the Church requires.
Third Preference:
Funeral rites with the cremated remains present.
While the Church has
granted the celebration of the Funeral Liturgy, including Mass, in the
presence of the cremated remains of the deceased it is considered the least
desirable of the options. The Church strongly prefers that the body of the
deceased be present for its funeral rites since the presence of the body
clearly recalls the life and death of the person.
Realizing that the practice of cremation is being chosen for a variety of
reasons, including economy and practicality, often cremation has occurred
before the funeral rites. When this does happen, the Vigil for the deceased
may be celebrated in the presence of the cremated remains. Likewise, the
cremated remains may be brought to church for the celebration of the Funeral
Mass.
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Q.
Why doesn't the Church allow cremated remains to be scattered or
kept in a home?
A. The Church believes cremated remains of a body should be treated
with the same respect given the human body from which they come. If cremated
remains are not treated with honor and dignity, cremation can allow for
disrespect of the human body. Scattering the ashes deprives loved ones and
descendants of the opportunity to visit the remains where they can pray and
reflect upon the life and memory of the deceased. Dividing the cremated
remains among family and friends or keeping them in the home seems to
diminish the respect for human life and shows a lack of proper respect and
dignity for the dead.
Prepared by the Office of Worship
Diocese of St. Petersburg
6533 Ninth Ave North
St. Petersburg, Florida 33743
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